If you’re in a long-term relationship, it’s natural to begin to feel like your sex life has lost its spark, but all is not lost! There is a range of different things that you can do to get that bit of fire back into the bedroom, whether that’s trying new things like toys or positions, playing games to set the mood or even moving out of the bedroom to create that extra bit of excitement. If you’re looking to try something sensual and new, you could try a tantric massage in London as a way to open up to new types of pleasure and sensations that could have a positive impact on your relationship.
Make time
The main thing that tends to happen when you’ve been in a relationship for years is that you become complacent and life can take over, meaning that we’re either too busy and preoccupied to have sex or too tired from our busy lives. One of the ways you can make sure that you and your partner can try new things is to schedule a time to have sex. Schedule a date night to make sure that nothing else can get in the way. Talk about it and create some excitement around the event, so that you’re both looking forward to it.
Add toys
Adding toys to your sex life is a great way to inject a bit of excitement into your relationship. There is a huge range of sex toys on the market these days, something for everyone and every sensation. You could even browse toys together to create some anticipation. You could choose a toy to use on each other, or a toy designed for couples. Adding a new element can help to create excitement between you both and is a good way of experiencing a new type of pleasure.
Move out of the bedroom
Spicing up your sex life doesn’t necessarily mean keeping it within the four walls of your bedroom. You can get the spark back into your relationship by creating anticipation and being spontaneous – why not move your intimacy to somewhere else in your house? You could try something new in the shower or move to the sofa. The new surroundings are guaranteed to get you both excited!
Lingerie
Treat yourself or your partner to something delicate and lacy. Dressing in something that makes you feel confident is key – you could surprise your partner by revealing your new lingerie in bed or you could make a date of it. Go shopping together and choose something that you both like or browse a website and find something that will get you both excited.
Play games
If you’re struggling with ideas on how to spice things up, adult games are a great way to get the creativity flowing. There are several board games available online that can introduce a whole new element to sex and takes having to think of new ideas out of the equation. You could opt for a board game and have a date night for just the two of you or choose position cards or dice to get you trying things you’ve never done before.
Massages
It’s so important to take time to relax, so why not incorporate this into the bedroom? You could try out a sensual massage on each other to set the mood – light candles, use oils, and lather up! There are so many tips and tricks on how to perform a sensual massage, so you can do a bit of research before you start. A massage is a great way to get your night together started.